1、婚姻中爱是相互的，都要有一颗理解和包容对方的心，离婚也是一个巴掌拍不响的!

Love in marriage is mutual. We should have a heart of understanding and tolerance. Divorce is also a 

slap in the face!

2、有没有人跟我一样，情绪低落的时候，谁也不想联系，独自一人躺在床上，不停的刷着抖音，感动着别人的

故事，想想自己的故事，然后默默的流下眼泪。

is there anyone who is like me when I feel down, nobody wants to contact, lie alone in bed, brush 

tiktok constantly, move others' stories, think of their stories, and then shed tears in silence.

3、过好自己的日子就可以了，不要总是跟别人比来比去的。越比你心里就越不平衡，越不平衡你就越想离婚。

Just live your own life. Don't always compare with others. The more you compare, the more 

unbalanced you are. The more unbalanced you are, the more you want a divorce.

4、人生观，价值观，世界观，三观合，才是在一起的最低标准，才能一起努力。

Outlook on life, values, world outlook and the combination of three views are the minimum standards 

for being together and working together.

5、人生没有完美，幸福也不是一百分，真正的幸福，不是依赖于任何外在的人或事物，也不是变化无常的情绪

和感受，而是不论男人还是女人，内心保持一种平静愉快的状态，坦然接受不完美，真心付出，遇事乐观，忘掉

复杂。

Life is not perfect, and happiness is not a hundred points. Real happiness does not depend on any 

external person or thing, nor does it depend on changeable emotions and feelings, but whether men 

or women, they maintain a calm and happy state in their hearts, accept imperfections calmly, pay 

sincerely, be optimistic and forget complexity.

6、还要让娃穿干净，所以我建议我们女人不要结婚，以后能保持好自己的身体，也不气自己，所以以后远离男

人，对我们伤害太大了。

Also let the baby wear clean, so I suggest that our women don't get married. In the future, they can 

keep their body and don't be angry with themselves. Therefore, it will hurt us too much to stay away 

from men in the future.

7、女人、男人的爱都是相互的，家务也是一起做的，别回到家里就像个大爷一样，女人就算是在家里带孩子，

她24小时在围着孩子转，男人们体会过吗?

Women and men love each other and do housework together. Don't go home like an uncle. Even if a 

woman takes care of her children at home, she is around the children for 24 hours. Have men ever 

experienced it?

8、听了别人的三言两语，就感觉自己是神仙下凡，个个方面有多好，其实也不过是普通的一颗草。真正优秀那

几百人眼里草都不如。剩下的都是凡夫俗子。有啥配不配的。

After listening to other people's words, I feel that I am an immortal. In fact, I am just an ordinary grass. 

The really excellent hundreds of people are inferior to grass. The rest are ordinary people. What do 

you deserve.

9、你认为的幸福是什么?我觉得是相濡以沫，懂得换位思考，相互包容和理解，而不是因为一点小事斤斤计较，

爱是相互的，而不是一味的索取。

What do you think is happiness? I think it is to help each other, understand transposition thinking, 

mutual tolerance and understanding, not because of a little thing. Love is mutual, not blindly seeking.

10、毒鸡汤契合了内心原本存在的阴暗、放大了自恋、美化了无知、为无底线找到貌似合理的借口!换位思考已

经在我们的生活中渐行渐远了。

Poisonous chicken soup fits the darkness that originally exists in the heart, amplifies narcissism, 

beautifies ignorance, and finds a seemingly reasonable excuse for no bottom line! Transposition 

thinking has been drifting away in our lives.